My Bookish Resolutions For 2023
Hello readers and writerly friends!
Welcome back to my blog! If you haven’t read my latest two blog posts, they’re linked at the bottom of this page! This week, we’re discussing my 2023 bookish goals and resolutions. What are your goals for 2023? Leave me a comment below!
Some of these are repeat goals and some are new. Last year, my only goal was to read 22 books and I nailed it! This year, I decided I wanted to do more than just read, but I wanted to keep them simple and SMART —- specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-bound. I’ve given myself 5 goals to strive for in 2023
My bookshelf filled with more knick-knacks than actual books. Photo by Payton Hayes.
Read all of the TBR books on my shelf in 2023
In 2020, I went through a book purge and got rid of almost 200 books! As a result, my bookshelf seems to be filled more with rocks, figurines, and knick-knacks, than actual books, but oh well. This year, my primary goal is to read all of the books on that shelf. I started chipping away at it in 2022, and as I completed a book, I either kept it or donated it to the library. There’s 36 books to be read on my shelf. If I can read 34 books in 2022, then this year, I can clear the shelf!
Finish the Wingbound Trilogy by Heather Trim in 2023
As you can see from my #shelfie, the series is waiting patiently on my shelf. In 2023, I plan to finish this series, starting with Wingspan in January!
Set up a cozy reading space in Winter-Spring of 2023
My partner and I just moved into our apartment back in August 2022, and we don’t yet have our living room furnished. In 2023, I hope to get some big furniture pieces that are comfy, cozy, stylish, and together make for a great reading spot as well as watching our favorite films.
Get a new bookshelf in 2023
Part of the furniture plan for 2023, is to get a new bookshelf. I think we’re going with a mid-century modern or industrial themed living room with cozy accents, so this shelf has got to go. Besides, I want to use this shelf to store our towels in the bathroom. Our current shelf is flimsy at best.
Read a 2023 release early in 2023
This may be tricky to get my hands on, but I definitely want to try and read Yellowface by R.F. Kuang asap! I have never read an early release and it didn’t seem possible to get my hands on a copy at the end of 2022, so maybe once it’s out I can snag a copy and write a review on it as early as possible! Keep your eyes out for that!
That’s all for my 2023 Bookish Resolutions! I hope you enjoyed reading this post! I know this goal list was far shorter than 2020 and 2021. It’s been a crazy couple of years! But now that I’m back in the practice of reading and writing daily, I hope I can achieve these goals and I am certainly looking forward to trying! What are your 2023 bookish goals or resolutions? Did you complete or make progress towards your 2022 goals? Let me know in the comments below and as always, thanks for reading!
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2022 End of The Year Book Survey
All the books I read in 2022! Photo by Payton Hayes.
Hi readers and writerly friends!
I am once again completing the End of The Year Book Survey created by Jamie from PerpetualPageTurner.com! Make sure you check out her post here and share it if you do decide to complete it for yourself!
Note: The survey is for books you read throughout the year, no matter when they were published, and is not limited to just books that came out in 2022! Previous years and related topics have been included at the end of this post!
2022 Reading Statistics
Number of books Read:35
Number of Re-Reads:0
Genre read from the most: Nonfiction, Mental Health
Best in Books
1. Best Book You Read In 2022?
I couldn’t leave any of these out. If I had to choose just one, I’d pick Where the Crawdad’s Sing by Delia Owens. I couldn’t put it down!
Where the Crawdad’s Sing by Delia Owens
Gorilla and the Bird: A Memoir of Madness by Zack McDermott
The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller and Ruth Ward
Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery
2. Book You Were Excited About & Thought You Were Going To Love More But Didn’t?
A Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood
The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday
Laziness Does Not Exist by Devon Price
All of these books I had heard great things about, but personally didn’t enjoy as much as I thought I would based on the hype. I hoped they’d all be 5-star books, but was found a little wanting after closing their covers. The second two contained a lot of excellent information, but I just don’t think they lived up to the hype.
3. Most surprising (in a good way or bad way) book you read?
The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller and Ruth Ward
4. Book You “Pushed” The Most People To Read (And They Did)?
Where the Crawdad’s Sing by Delia Owens
The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller and Ruth Ward
I told everyone I know who reads to check out Where the Crawdad’s Sing by Delia Owens but I am not sure that they have just yet. I mentioned The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller and Ruth Ward and Gorilla and the Bird: A Memoir of Madness by Zack McDermott to my therapist and she wrote them down, so that’s something? A coworker and I got to talking about our most impactful reads this year and I recommended The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller to her and she recommended The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel and The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine. I then had coffee with an old friend from high school and to her I also recommended The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller and in turn, she recommended Mindset by Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D | Key Takeaways, Analysis & Review: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. Dweck, all three of which, I have added to my Goodreads “Want To Read” shelf.
5. Best series you started in 2022? Best Sequel? Best Series Ender of 2022?
The Wingspan Trilogy by Heather Trim was the only series I read in 2022 and I only read two out of three of the books. I really enjoyed this series and I hope to finish it in 2023!
6. Favorite new author you discovered in 2022?
L.M. Montgomery
7. Best book from a genre you don’t typically read/was out of your comfort zone?
The Kid-Friendly ADHD and Autism Cookbook by Pamela J Compart and Dana GodBout Laake
I typically don’t read cookbooks as reading material, but I picked up and read several of them this year. I found this book the most informative and interesting because of the mental health information it contained as well as effective diets for neurodiverse people.
8. Most action-packed/thrilling/unputdownable book of the year?
Where the Crawdad’s Sing by Delia Owens
I just could not put this book down. The characters are just so interesting and the plot twist is fantastic!
9. Book You Read In 2022 That You Would Be MOST Likely To Re-Read Next Year?
The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday
Though this book disappointed me slightly, I think I’d pick it up again next year. I don’t have the best reading routine and with this book being a daily reader, I probably didn’t give it the best shot. I’d go days at a time forgetting to pick it up and then catch up later. 😅
10. Favorite cover of a book you read in 2022?
Wingbound by Heather Trim
11. Most memorable character of 2022?
Anne Shirley from Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery
12. Most beautifully written book read in 2022?
Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery
13. Most Thought-Provoking/ Life-Changing Book of 2022?
The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller and Ruth Ward
14. Book you can’t believe you waited UNTIL 2022 to finally read?
I think all of the books I read this year were picks from this year. I pretty much read whatever I felt like reading when I felt like reading it. I think that’s the main reason why I was able to read so many books this year compared to last year. In the past, I’ve put restrictions on my reading goals and this made it harder to motivate myself to read.
15. Favorite Passage/Quote From A Book You Read In 2022?
Page 305 from The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday
Virtue And Kindness
October 12th
ALWAYS LOVE
“Hecato says, ‘I can teach you a love potion made without drugs, herbs, or special spell —if you would be loved, love.”
—SENECA MORAL LETTERS, 9.6
In 1992, Barbara Jordan addressed the Democratic National Conventtion and railed against the greed and selfishness and divisiveness of the previous decade. People were ready for a change. “Change it to what?” she asked. “Change the environment of the 80’s to an environment which is characterized by a devotion to the public interest, public service, tolerance, and love. Love. Love. Love.”
Love. Love. Love. Why? Because, as the Beatles put it, “In the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.” Not just in politics, not just in tolerance, but in our personal lives. There is almost no situation in which hatred helps. Yet almost every situation is made better by love —or empathy, understanding, and appreciation —-even situations in which you are in opposition to someone.
And who knows, you might just get some of that love back.
—Ryan Holiday, The Daily Stoic, page 305.
16. Shortest & Longest Book You Read In 2022?
Shortest: Oh Hell No!:And Other Ways To Set Some Damn Boundaries by Chronicle Books
Longest: The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) by the American Psychiatric Association
17. Book that shocked you the most
The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller and Ruth Ward
This book blew me away. It might have just been the most spot-on book of all the mental health books I read this year, and ever. I felt noticed, called out, and understood while reading this book. At times, it felt almost offensive that some of the concepts were staring me dead in the face, like an unsettling reflection you can’t shake. It resonated with me deeply and I felt as if the author was looking into my soul.
If you have PTSD, grew up with authoritarian parents, put the needs of others before your own needs for most of your life, and felt like you haven’t met your full potential, then this book may be for you. It gives an explanation for how readers are the way they are, helps the reader understand why they wittingly and unwittingly put their trauma back on others, and gives the reader hope for the future with a new perspective on their childhood and past.
18. OTP OF THE YEAR (You will go down with this ship!) (OTP = One true pairing if you aren’t familiar)
Kya Clark and Tate Walker from Where the Crawdad’s Sing by Delia Owens
19. Favorite Non-Romantic Relationship Of The Year
Anne Shirley and Marilla Cuthbert of Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery
20. Favorite Book You Read in 2022 From An Author You’ve Read From Previously
I did not read any books from authors I’ve read from previously this year.
21. Best Book You Read in 2022 That You Read Based SOLELY On A Recommendation From Somebody Else/Peer Pressure/ Bookstagram, etc.
Where the Crawdad’s Sing by Delia Owens - Recommended by Mollie Tubeville from MollieReads
22. Newest fictional crush from a book you read in 2022?
I did not have any fictional crushes from the books I read in 2022. I read mostly nonfiction.
23. Best 2022 debut you read?
I really enjoyed Jeanette McCurdy’s I’m Glad My Mom Died, and highly recommend you read it if you like reading memoirs.
24. Best Worldbuilding/Most Vivid Setting You Read This Year?
Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery
Anne Shirley’s imaginative, colorful descriptions of Avondale were so magical and reminded me of what it was like to play and imagine as a child. This book was so charming.
25. Book That Put A Smile On Your Face/Was The Most FUN To Read?
Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery
26. Book That Made You Cry Or Nearly Cry in 2022?
Gorilla and the Bird: A Memoir of Madness by Zack McDermott
27. Hidden Gem Of The Year?
The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller and Ruth Ward
28. Book That Crushed Your Soul?
Blood Orange by Harriet Tyce
None of the books I read this year really crushed my soul. However, this book was such a disappointment that I felt like I’d wasted time reading it altogether.
29. Most Unique Book You Read In 2022?
Drug Use for Grown-Ups: Chasing Liberty in the Land of Fear by Carl L. Hart
30. Book That Made You The Most Mad (doesn’t necessarily mean you didn’t like it)?
A Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood
My Blogging/Bookish Life
1. New favorite book blog/Bookstagram/Youtube channel you discovered in 2022?
I started following @authenticallyryan on Instagram and I enjoy her bookish content there.
2. Favorite post you wrote in 2022?
For Content Creators and CEOs with ADHD: Strategies to Succeed Despite Overwhelm and Distractions
This blog post was very near and dear to my heart. I worked really hard on it and wrote from a lot of personal experience. I hope that it reaches the audience it’s meant for and helps anyone who reads it. 😊
Sweetbitter by Stephanie Danler and a jar of hibiscus tea on a wood tabletop. Follow me on Instagram for more bookish photos! Photo by Payton Hayes.
3. Favorite bookish related photo you took in 2022?
My photo of Sweetbitter by Stephanie Danler and a jar of hibiscus tea on a wood tabletop. I took this photo after I finished the book. I think I liked the picture and cover better than I liked the book. I had high hopes for it but it left me wishing the character relationships had been a little more realistic and unique.
This photo is on my Instagram! Follow me for more bookish content!
4. Best bookish event that you participated in (author signings, festivals, virtual events, etc.)?
I haven’t attended any bookish events in 2022, but I’m planning attend at least two writing conventions, to attend a workshop or two with the Yukon Writer’s Society, and to host monthly workshops for the Oklahoma Writer’s Society next year!
5. Best moment of bookish/blogging life in 2022?
Surpassing my Goodreads Reading Challenge to read 22 books —I read 33!
6. Most challenging thing about blogging or your reading life this year?
It was really hard to get back into writing for my blog this year. 2020 and 2021 were rough years for me, like most everyone. My mental health declined and with it, my creativity and motivation to write. But I read a lot of books, went to therapy, did some soul searching, and fell in love with being creative again. It’s been a long, challenging journey, but I’m back and better than ever.
7. Most Popular Post This Year On Your Blog (whether it be by comments or views)?
How To Write Best Friends to Lovers Romance - That Feels Realistic
This post was written in 2020 but it’s gotten 1.5k views in the last year. Best friends to lovers is a popular trope in romance.
8. Post You Wished Got A Little More Love?
For Content Creators and CEOs with ADHD: Strategies to Succeed Despite Overwhelm and Distractions
9. Best bookish discover (book related sites, book stores, etc.)?
I don’t think I’ve discovered any great bookish, non-book items this year. I did at a lot of new books to my TBR on Goodreads, though!
10. Did you complete any reading challenges or goals that you had set for yourself at the beginning of this year?
Yes! I completed my 2022 goal of reading 22 books this year! This was my Goodreads Reading Challenge for 2022 and I actually ended up reading 33 books!
Looking ahead
1. One Book You Didn’t Get To In 2022 But Will Be Your Number 1 Priority in 2023?
Wingspan by Heather Trim
Next year, I hope to finish this series!
2. Book You Are Most Anticipating For 2023 (non-debut)?
I’m Glad My Mom Died by Jennette McCurdy, debuted in 2022.
3. 2023 Debut You Are Most Anticipating?
Yellowface by R.F. Kuang
4. Series Ending/A Sequel You Are Most Anticipating in 2023?
Winds of Winter by George R.R. Martin. He hasn’t said it’s going to be finished in 2023, but in a recent interview from The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, he mentioned that the book may be as long as 1500 pages and it's about three-quarters of the way complete.
Read more here.
5. One Thing You Hope To Accomplish Or Do In Your Reading/Blogging Life In 2023?
I hope to get more comments and engagement on my blog post. Every month, there’s hundreds and even thousands of views but no one leaves a comment. I’d love to get to know my readers and start some fun, bookish conversations!
6. A 2023 Release You’ve Already Read & Recommend To Everyone (if applicable):
I haven’t read any 2023 releases early, but I hope to read Yellowface by R.F. Kuang next year once it’s out!
And that’s it for my 2022 Bookish End Of The Year Survey! Make sure you check out Jamie at Perpetualpageturner.com and fill out the survey for yourself here! Leave me a comment answering one of these questions and if you do decide to fill out the survey, make sure to link it in the comments and share it with Jamie and myself so we can see your results!
